Add the following options to the java:
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=8010
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.local.only=false
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false